Neuschwanstein Castle
Pictures were not allowed in either castle. Hohenschwangau is very much more of a large home than a castle. Neuschwanstein Castle is completely over the top in all respects.
Mad King Ludwig was only 18 when he became King of Bavaria. He grew up in a spartan and sheltered environment with parents who didn't seem to enjoy each other's company and who didn't spend much time with their children. Composer Richard Wagner became very close friends with Ludwig, spending time at Hohenschwangau. Ludwig was engaged, kept postponing the wedding, and finally broke the engagement right before the wedding. While using his personal fortune to pay for his many building projects, he was deeply in debt to family members and ignored advice to stop spending so extravagantly. Although well loved by his people, a group of government ministers and his uncle (who would gain the throne if Ludwig was deposed) started a movement to have Ludwig declared insane. The day after he was arrested, he and his doctor were found drown in a lake after they went missing during a walk. The death was suspicious as Ludwig was accounted to be a strong swimmer and the lake was not deep. Some theorize that he and his doctor were killed while they attempted to escape and the manner of his death was covered up.
After touring both castles and learning the history of the family, DH and I are convinced that Ludwig was gay - and that the ministers and, especially his uncle, (who in all photos we saw was in hunting or other macho-for-the-time regalia) could not overlook Ludwig's sexual orientation. (I say overlook since acceptance - during the mid - late 1800s - would have been out of the question.)
*Translates as "our darling king."